
A graduate of Bryn Mawr College with a master of science in clinical social work, Ellen Ostroff, LCSW operates a private psychotherapy practice for individuals and couples in the Philadelphia area. Ellen Ostroff, LCSW utilizes modalities such as dialectical behavior therapy and emotionally focused therapy (EFT), a structured form of couples therapy that works with negative communication patterns.
EFT is a psychotherapy approach developed in tandem with adult attachment theory, which deals with the ways adults form and maintain intimate relationships. Based on clear, explicit research, EFT aims to help couples order and reorganize key emotional responses. Therapy sessions might help couples identify patterns such as “pursue-withdraw” or “criticize-defend” and explore new ways to interact and bond with each other.
Couples learn to communicate emotions from a space of vulnerability and ask clearly for what they need, as well as to view undesirable behavior as evidence of an unmet need rather than a personal attack. According to research, approximately 90 percent of couples undergoing EFT report significant improvements in their relationships.

